Hey Peeps
Here is our second T&B
Talks. Tara and I are going to talk about letting go of our past that we cannot
change and learning how to have courage to do this.
Things happen in our life. Bad
things happen to good people. That is just the way life goes. But we live in
the present and we don’t have the power to change what happened in the past, no
matter how much we wished that we had magical powers or a time machine to do
so. – Becca
This quote means a lot to
me. A lot of the things that I stress and worry about are things I cannot
change. Last year, I would constantly do it. It almost destroyed me & sometimes
I still do it but I think it was during Christmas that I decided to stop. As a
result I've become happier. I can now see that I have to make myself happy, I
have to have the power to do it. I'm not saying you have to stop thinking about
it completely, because that's not possible straight away, but having the
courage to let it go and not let it consume you is when you'll be happiest. -
Tara
Although it seems hard the
best thing we can do is let go. I know this is easier said than done, trust me.
But at the end of the day the person we must look after most is our self and we
can’t look after our self if we are living in the past and worrying about what
happened or what could have been. The best way we can look after our self is to
accept what happened, accept that it is in the past, accept that we cannot change
it and to let go. It will take a heck of a lot of courage to this. But when you
do it will be one of the happiest moments in your life. – Becca
It’s all about being able to
love yourself and knowing that you deserve to be happy. Anything that is not making you happy even if
it hurts you to let go (for example a boyfriend) is not worth being in your
life because you can't change someone or that situation. You have to learn to
love yourself enough so that when someone enters your life that treats you
negatively or when something that you don't like happens if your life, you can
stand up for yourself and have the strength to let go. You can learn that it is
okay to say no to anyone who is not willing to treat you with the love and
respect you not only want, but also deserve. – Tara
If you have any suggestions for the next T&B Talks then please feel free to leave them in the comments below. I love reading what you have to say!
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Great post!! And lovely blog :)
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Thank you!! x
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